A few weeks ago, I was encouraged to join the semi-regular poker game some of my co-workers convene after work. I'm not a very good poker player (couldn't even remember the order of the hands) and had to leave shortly, so I figured I was making a $20 donation in the name of workplace camaraderie. In fact, by the time I needed to leave, I was up $50. It seemed like bad manners to cash out my winnings, but what was I supposed to do?

Take the money and run! Seriously, though, take the money. And run. If you think it's bad manners to accept your winnings, you have more to learn about poker than whether a straight flush or a pair of twos is a better hand.

You did the math and told yourself that $20 was a worthwhile investment in a friendly game; so, presumably, did they. You can only assume that your coworkers can afford the $20 just as well as you. That's how gambling is supposed to work: if you've made your peace with losing your stake, you'll go home happy whatever cards you draw. If you can't afford to lose, you probably shouldn't play. (Yeah, yeah, serious gamblers, I know you're going to tell me I'm missing the point. But I believe in going home with your shirt. At least in winter.)

If you had a good time — or if you really feel guilty — just join the game again sometime. That beginner's luck won't hold forever, and you'll be going home with empty pockets and a clear conscience soon enough.

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